47 Year Old Marries An 8 Year Old…

 

What kind of sick perverted world are we living in!!? Is it possible for an 8 year old girl to get married to a 47 year old man? the answer is hell NO!! It sickens me to read about old men marrying small kids in middle easten countries.. It makes me want to collect all those perverted men and put them in one place and set it on fire..( lol, too much i know, but that is just how angry it makes me).

Two day in a row now that i have been reading two articles on bbc.com, one article was about a Saudi Arabian man who gave his8 year old daughter to a 47 year old man for marriage because he owed him money, and when the man’s ex wife tried to protest and get her daughter’s marriage annulled, the prince refused saying the girl is of age to be married and also that the man will not sleep with the girl until she is 16. Who will be there to watch that that really happens, the reason these men marry small girls is because they are attracted to them ( and what kind of man is attracted to an 8 year old??) As much as it pains me to say this out load to myself, i believe the man has sex with the girl the moment they get home..
And then today i read another article which a top Saudi cleric said  it’s ok for a young girls to marry, quoting Sheikh Abdul Aziz Al-Sheikh, the kingdom’s grand mufti,  he said “It is incorrect to say that it’s not permitted to marry off girls who are 15 and younger, A girl aged 10 or 12 can be married. Those who think she’s too young are wrong and they are being unfair to her “. Hearing this from what is supposed to be a respected, logical member of society just made me so confused. Men like these are the reason people all over the world are hating the Islam religion more and more because when they hear things like this, and him saying that it is Sharia law and written in the quran that old men should marry small girls ( 8 year olds to 15 year olds).
I mean who in the whole wide freaken world believes that a 10 or 12 year old girl has any sense of mind to be married?  how is it that a 10 year old is developed enough to be marriage worthy? What they are doing is just stripping kids of their innocence, their childhood..
In every other country small girls like this are busy playing with their barbies, thinking about homework, worrying about nothing, playing jump rope, playing with their mother’s make up and just being girly and a child.
If it was in any normal country which is concerned about women and children’s rights, these men would be put in prison for being both perverts and child molesters as well as child traffickers!!
If only i had the power to erase them from the earth i would make the world a much better place!!
If you want to read the complete articles then go to these links article1 and article2
And i would love to hear your thoughts on this. 🙂

Racism At An All Time High In Malaysia…

Normally i don’t really like to talk about racism because it exist in every single country, in every single second, i can take the constant stare and wonderment, the believe that i have a pet lion ( lol, yes that is really what they think ) or the insufferable way they believe it is ok to call you the N word as a joke, but i just had to say something about this. For the past 3 weeks it has been pretty hard for any black person to walk freely in the streets of Malaysia because for some reason the immigration department in Kuala Lumpor ( the capital city) are conducting raids and the people they are targeting are black people. Of course they cover it up by saying they are conducting raids on all foreigners, but the fact of the matter is they only arrest black people. They are not giving reason as to why, but they have started arresting even students and random other people just walking the streets. To be safe now all Africans have to always have their passports on them at all times when they are not in their work places, Universities or their homes. This in turn makes it very dangerous because at any point the passports could be lost, or even stolen, if by some chance you are caught and you have no passport on your person, you are taken to jail until official documentation can be shown to prove that you are in the country legally.

I mean if you are going to monitor every black person in your country, then have the nuts to just state that, do not hide behind the lie that you are monitoring all foreigners. I believe that as we get into a new era, racism is becoming stronger and now people feel it is fine to act like this because they hide behind fancy laws.

As a black person living in Malaysia as a student i am affected by this, but thank fully i have not had to experience the detention or the questioning, i still always hope and believe that a time shall come that we will all live happily together regardless of our nationality, skin color, religion and any other obstacles that make us hate one another. Most call it naivety, and maybe it is, but if i didnt believe that things will get better, or that humans will become more accepting and love one another, then i would not be able to survive in this world.

Of course i believe if some one has done something wrong( broke the law of the country) then they fully deserve to be punished for their crimes, but if its just an innocent student, or law abiding citizen, i do not see the point for these racist acts by the immigration department and the police.

If you want to see more of what is happening here please do click on this link

http://www.ntv7.com.my/7edition/local-en/22_AFRICANS_NABBED.html

Please do share your thoughts with me on this issue.

Obedient Wives Club….

I’m pretty sure we have all been hearing about the very controversial Malaysian group “Obedient wives club”. If you haven’t then I will try to briefly explain what it is, The Obedient Wives Club is an international Islamic organisation dedicated to teaching wives to be submissive to their husbands. It was formed in 2011, establishing branches in MalaysiaSingaporeIndonesia and Jordan It was founded by Global Ikhwan, a business conglomerate associated with the banned Malaysian sect al-Arqam. As of October 2011, the club had an estimated 800 members in Malaysia

The club promotes polygamy. It has published an explicit 115-page sex manual, titled Islamic Sex, Fighting Against Jews To Return Islamic Sex To The World, which encourages group sex between a man and his multiple wives. The club argues that the sexual submission of a wife to her husband will reduce the likelihood of the husband engaging in adultery; one of the group’s leaders publicly suggested that it is a wife’s responsibility to perform sex like a “first-class whore”

Basically what these women are saying is that women should be their husbands’ slaves, they say that what ever mistake a man does, it is because his woman is not satisfying him in bed or he is not getting the attention he deserves from her.. these are some of the things they claim :

-if a man beats his wives it’s her fault

-if he cheats, it’s her fault

-If he yells at her, it’s because she made a mistake

These are all symptoms of battered person’s syndrome, they feel responsible and helpless over the abuse they are getting and try to pretend to have some sort of control over their lives and their marriage by saying all these unexplainable statements. I mean one would think that because the members of the group are very educated established women like doctors, engineers, dentists even psychologists, they would have the brains to know that what they are saying and what they are doing is hurting the development of women and also the idea of marriage and religion.

They continually state that women should be “obedient to her husband”. She should not question him and she should always be ready for sex and pleasuring him whenever he walks in the door from work. They also very lewdly talk about how the women should be like a “first class whore” when it comes to sex with her husband, they encourage husbands to have group sex with their wives and they also encourage their husbands to live in one big house with all their wives.

What i do not like about these women is that they are being spoon fed information and then they subsequently feed wrong details to other uninformed women, they are downgrading women and pushing them back 100 years back and making it harder for other women who are also married. And they do all this using the excuse of religion while in fact they are just trying to push their own crazy agenda.

If you want to learn a little bit more about these women check out this video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaoZh7StKIs

Please do share with me your views on these women..

Painting The World With Ugliness…

Have you ever asked yourself  what are you doing to make the world better, to increase even one person’s happiness, to help one homeless person?

Most of us never even think about this fact, we walk around consumed in our own thoughts and lives so much so that we never see the terrible environment all around us. We see people being killed, being bullied, being lonely all because we don’t feel it’s worth our time to lend a hand, or even to look and open our eyes to the hurt and pain all around us.

We live in a world of no sense of society, no sense of responsibility, no sense of helping each other, people commit suicide simply because they are lonely and have no one to turn to.

Instead of painting the world with ugliness each and every single second, why dont we all try. If you have the chance to change someone’s life, why dont you take it?

Why dont we start painting the world with love, hope and  a rainbow of happiness??