By that i mean the men women fantasize or wish their men to be like. I believe this because leading men all the delicious, sexy, romantic novels that women become addicted to always have the same traits/ characteristics.Christian Grey (Fifty Shades of Grey), Gideon Cross (Crossfire trilogy), Jeremiah Hamilton (Anything he wants), Elijah Reynolds(A hunger so wild), Lieutenant David Colyear ( Almost a scandal), Roman Reynolds(Temptation Rising).. I could go on the whole night.. 😀
It seems powerful, dominating, broody, obsessively protective,controlling,over bearing, overly jealous, billionaires with incredible sexpertise are what we women are looking for. A man who would love you so deeply and so completely you become his sole focus, his sole possession so much that he would do anything for you,he must have you, any time, any place, he would do anything to you *naughty grin*. He would love you so much he would die for you, want to spend every second of every day worshiping at your feet (of course topping all the time).
But would these men’s irrational, sometimes stalkerish ways work in the real world?! Would their power be as attractive as in the books? not to mention the fact that they come bearing more than enough baggage for the relationship to actually work.. But what can i say, as women this is what we are addicted to, this is what we crave, for someone to make all the decisions, for someone to love us so much it stifles us, For someone who longs so very much for you they can hardly stay away from you, for someone to put everything and everyone else in their lives just so that they can some and meet our every need, our every desire.. But again i ask, would this work in realistic terms?!
Ladies is this the kind of man you long for? 🙂